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Stop trying to win the fight. Do this instead.

Relationship coach carousel, slide 1 of 6 (cover)

Relationship coach carousel, slide 2 of 6 (card)

Relationship coach carousel, slide 3 of 6 (card)

Relationship coach carousel, slide 4 of 6 (list card)

Relationship coach carousel, slide 5 of 6 (card)

Relationship coach carousel, slide 6 of 6 (call to action)

How this carousel is built, slide by slide

Cover: the contrarian hook 'Stop trying to win the fight. Do this instead.' attacks the reflex everyone in a relationship recognizes and withholds the fix, so the only way to learn the alternative is to keep swiping.
Reframe the goal 'You can be right and alone, or connected and a little wrong. Pick connected.' reframes winning as losing in one quotable line, which makes the reader feel seen and primes them for a new strategy.
Name what the fight is really about 'It is do I matter to you? wearing the dishes as a costume.' renames a surface annoyance as an attachment question, the insight that earns the save and the trust to keep reading.
The 3-line repair script Pause, Reflect, Own one thing gives three copy-and-paste sentences, including 'name your 10% before you ask for theirs.' Concrete scripts are screenshot bait and signal the lead magnet will be just as usable.
Pre-empt the objection 'Repair does not mean agreeing... safety before solutions, always.' answers the reader who fears reconnecting means caving, removing the last reason not to try the method.
Comment-to-DM CTA 'Want the full repair script? Comment REPAIR and I will send it.' trades the deck's teaser for the complete sequence, converting saves into comments and DM conversations that become leads.

Who this is for

Relationship and couples coaches who teach de-escalation or communication and want a conflict-moment hook that proves their method with a script instead of vague advice like 'communicate better'.

Steal the structure

Steal the structure: open by banning the reader's default move, reframe the real stakes underneath the surface complaint, hand over a numbered say-this-exactly script, kill the obvious objection, then gate the full version behind a keyword comment.

FAQ

Questions, answered.

Why give away the repair lines on the slides instead of saving them all for the DM?

Showing three real lines proves the method works and earns the save. The keyword reward is the full sequence with the exact phrasing for harder moments, so people who got value still have a reason to comment.

Does a heavy, emotional topic like fighting work as a carousel hook?

Yes, because conflict is a high-search-intent moment people feel right now. Naming the painful pattern ('do I matter to you?') in slide two is what makes someone stop scrolling, so lean into the specific scene rather than softening it.

What should the REPAIR auto-DM actually contain?

The complete script the deck only previewed: word-for-word pause, reflect, and own-it lines, plus what to do when your partner is too escalated to engage, and one soft prompt to book a session or join your list.